Marriage and love?
Like it or not, this question can no longer be avoided: What is marriage?
For thousands of years, societies have held that marriage is a relationship between a man and a woman, and their laws have reflected this..Often,I wonder why people have to get married,it's like the next so ordinary thing to do and most important event ever in your life.Is that really the case?If it is,then why the extra marital affair.obviously, there is a paradigm shift in this big word we call marriage.Sadly.
Get married,copulate,make love,give birth and voila..happy family.That was probably a thing of the past as much as i hate to admit.The man says that it is the lady's fault if the marriage sours.The lady says otherwise.The man says that the lady is unable to provide family warmth or fulfill her duty as a wife and neither can she be romantically sweet or provide tender loving care.Sounds really sissy if you ask me.I gotta agree that it is part of our duty to fulfill our responsibilities but that does not mean that men have none aiight?Providing family warmth is the work of both parties anyhow,so why blame the lady?Do you man have brains that are built upon shambles.Seriously.You men get so much kick outta dicking ard behind your wives and give us cockhead reasons that we do not provide family warmth.So dicking around will create the highly sought after warmth you've been yearning for?If so,you must be the biggest dick around.
extra marital affair(ema) shatters.Like we don already know that.Yet,that very fact still dwells.Women are breakable,fragile and delicate,ever so literally.Can you hear my plight for all the females out there?Many a times,ema arises cos of monstrous men's mission to conquer his dicking needs.im sorry im being bias but i've witness too many instances of ema and the moronic problem lies with the dicking party.
What can we ladies do to safeguard ourselves from all these?Really.Im so afraid.let's not even talk about marriage,but im really afraid to fall in love.It's not that my experiences were superbly horrid,more like the living testimonies of divorces strike the thought in me about the virtues of love.Is it a measure of depth,length and intensity?simply a commitment or are we jus generators for the next generation?I get lost sometimes.Often,i need directions,perhaps more than what other girls need?*shrugs* i don even know myself well enough actually.I feel like my soul do not belong to my body and they are distinctly apart.somewhat.oh wells.Lost identity,eclipsed in transition.
Flings.Much as it appears to be fun having tons of them pacifying your needs,it's distasteful.At the end of the day,your heart debates with your head and the squabble puts you to sleep so that you never wana think about the kinda fucked up life you lead in reality.Conclusion?Null.Just another temporal sorta relationship that barely lasted,if it even started that is.Life's a wry wry wire isn't it.At the end of the day,what we need is probably what we're most afraid of,true love.It's difficult to find though we always think we've found it.I thought i did too.So did many of our failed relationships.*shrugs* If life is a gamble,then love is the equivalent.we feel so contempted at life's numerous downturns or scoff at every single nity bits that comes along with it.love's the same way too.Then am i right to say life=love?*shrugs* It's hardly believable.
ah.how did i come to this fling topic.Ah,must be what LQ said today.well well.Just some thoughts on marriage which crossed my mind that's all.I hope i can marry a man like my papa.Im proud that he's my father. =) F.A.M.I.L.Y. Father And Mother I Love You.heh.If there was only one place you could find true love,it's my family.
For thousands of years, societies have held that marriage is a relationship between a man and a woman, and their laws have reflected this..Often,I wonder why people have to get married,it's like the next so ordinary thing to do and most important event ever in your life.Is that really the case?If it is,then why the extra marital affair.obviously, there is a paradigm shift in this big word we call marriage.Sadly.
Get married,copulate,make love,give birth and voila..happy family.That was probably a thing of the past as much as i hate to admit.The man says that it is the lady's fault if the marriage sours.The lady says otherwise.The man says that the lady is unable to provide family warmth or fulfill her duty as a wife and neither can she be romantically sweet or provide tender loving care.Sounds really sissy if you ask me.I gotta agree that it is part of our duty to fulfill our responsibilities but that does not mean that men have none aiight?Providing family warmth is the work of both parties anyhow,so why blame the lady?Do you man have brains that are built upon shambles.Seriously.You men get so much kick outta dicking ard behind your wives and give us cockhead reasons that we do not provide family warmth.So dicking around will create the highly sought after warmth you've been yearning for?If so,you must be the biggest dick around.
extra marital affair(ema) shatters.Like we don already know that.Yet,that very fact still dwells.Women are breakable,fragile and delicate,ever so literally.Can you hear my plight for all the females out there?Many a times,ema arises cos of monstrous men's mission to conquer his dicking needs.im sorry im being bias but i've witness too many instances of ema and the moronic problem lies with the dicking party.
What can we ladies do to safeguard ourselves from all these?Really.Im so afraid.let's not even talk about marriage,but im really afraid to fall in love.It's not that my experiences were superbly horrid,more like the living testimonies of divorces strike the thought in me about the virtues of love.Is it a measure of depth,length and intensity?simply a commitment or are we jus generators for the next generation?I get lost sometimes.Often,i need directions,perhaps more than what other girls need?*shrugs* i don even know myself well enough actually.I feel like my soul do not belong to my body and they are distinctly apart.somewhat.oh wells.Lost identity,eclipsed in transition.
Flings.Much as it appears to be fun having tons of them pacifying your needs,it's distasteful.At the end of the day,your heart debates with your head and the squabble puts you to sleep so that you never wana think about the kinda fucked up life you lead in reality.Conclusion?Null.Just another temporal sorta relationship that barely lasted,if it even started that is.Life's a wry wry wire isn't it.At the end of the day,what we need is probably what we're most afraid of,true love.It's difficult to find though we always think we've found it.I thought i did too.So did many of our failed relationships.*shrugs* If life is a gamble,then love is the equivalent.we feel so contempted at life's numerous downturns or scoff at every single nity bits that comes along with it.love's the same way too.Then am i right to say life=love?*shrugs* It's hardly believable.
ah.how did i come to this fling topic.Ah,must be what LQ said today.well well.Just some thoughts on marriage which crossed my mind that's all.I hope i can marry a man like my papa.Im proud that he's my father. =) F.A.M.I.L.Y. Father And Mother I Love You.heh.If there was only one place you could find true love,it's my family.
